The Pain for one... the loss of my memory. Sometimes it is still hard to recall certain things. For example, about four weeks post op I couldnt remember my neighbors name. I do not think I will ever be able to remember after my surgery to about 3 weeks after. I remember very little of that. The fact that my plan A, B, C didn't work out... but no fear plan D formed and it all worked out. I was not prepared to go through the drug withdrawls. Again, I weaned faster then most... and I am thankful now that it is over with but it was hell in the hallway. I had full blown withdrawls like a crack addict. Sweats, panic attack ( and I am not usually a sufferer of them),chills, crying... terrible is all I can say.
I was not prepared for the frustration of not being able to do things or that things just take 5 times longer then they should. Even though I knew what the precautions I would have, I didnt know the magnitude of how it really would affect me.
I was not prepared for the feelings I felt... I'm going to try to put it into words but I am sure I wont do it justice... It was as if the world continued and my world stopped. It was very hard emotionally for anyone to fill my emotional cup. I think once I got off the drugs, and back to my prayer life, things started getting better for me. I felt like no one really understood me. There are good feeling too, like walking further then you did the day before, realizing it's 11 pm and you're still awake without pain! Realizing how delightful it is to have a waist, and how exhilerating it is to try on new clothes.
I know everyone has different experiences... and this is part of mine.
I also was surprised that I felt like I was back in my boston brace after all this time. Wearing the brace as a child for me was no big deal and I am already used to the feeling... at three months post op it feels like nothing... just me!
Anyway, you all may not experience the same things. I definately had some tough spots but I DID get through them and I am optimistic that I will continue to get better from here.
Best,
Heidi
I was not prepared for the frustration of not being able to do things or that things just take 5 times longer then they should. Even though I knew what the precautions I would have, I didnt know the magnitude of how it really would affect me.
I was not prepared for the feelings I felt... I'm going to try to put it into words but I am sure I wont do it justice... It was as if the world continued and my world stopped. It was very hard emotionally for anyone to fill my emotional cup. I think once I got off the drugs, and back to my prayer life, things started getting better for me. I felt like no one really understood me. There are good feeling too, like walking further then you did the day before, realizing it's 11 pm and you're still awake without pain! Realizing how delightful it is to have a waist, and how exhilerating it is to try on new clothes.
I know everyone has different experiences... and this is part of mine.
I also was surprised that I felt like I was back in my boston brace after all this time. Wearing the brace as a child for me was no big deal and I am already used to the feeling... at three months post op it feels like nothing... just me!
Anyway, you all may not experience the same things. I definately had some tough spots but I DID get through them and I am optimistic that I will continue to get better from here.
Best,
Heidi
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