I haven't jumped into these "discussions" but have been following along for quite a while. I have to agree with Pam here...I notice a lot of fodder being thrown into the fire by people on both sides of the issue.
To say that someone that has had surgery shouldn't be allowed to post on the non-surgical section is ridiculous. Do you really believe that post surgery patients only advocate for surgery? Do I wish I could have managed my scoliosis without surgery...yes. Was that a viable option for me ...no. Without surgery I would have been in a wheelchair within a matter of years. My body was corkscrewing and crumpling in on itself at an alarming rate. I think each and every post surgery patient wishes that surgery wasn't their only option besides many more years of pain and disability. It doesn't mean our input and opinions are any less valuable because we are now post op.
Everyone here has a right to post in whatever section they choose. They also have to expect to be challenged when their posts deserve challenging.
I for one am appalled at how this entire section has morphed into a constant battle, with the bickering going back and forth on both sides. I for one would like to see it stop. It really isn't helpful to anyone. I am not advocating that people quit challenging things that need challenging, but please, do we really need 18 pages of arguing on a single thread? Do it between yourselves by email or PM.
Ok I am off my soapbox...I am now ready to be blasted by whomever disagrees with my opinion.
PS...Pam I always value your input and opinions. You have a lot to share with everyone here and you never shy away from a tough discussion.
To say that someone that has had surgery shouldn't be allowed to post on the non-surgical section is ridiculous. Do you really believe that post surgery patients only advocate for surgery? Do I wish I could have managed my scoliosis without surgery...yes. Was that a viable option for me ...no. Without surgery I would have been in a wheelchair within a matter of years. My body was corkscrewing and crumpling in on itself at an alarming rate. I think each and every post surgery patient wishes that surgery wasn't their only option besides many more years of pain and disability. It doesn't mean our input and opinions are any less valuable because we are now post op.
Everyone here has a right to post in whatever section they choose. They also have to expect to be challenged when their posts deserve challenging.
I for one am appalled at how this entire section has morphed into a constant battle, with the bickering going back and forth on both sides. I for one would like to see it stop. It really isn't helpful to anyone. I am not advocating that people quit challenging things that need challenging, but please, do we really need 18 pages of arguing on a single thread? Do it between yourselves by email or PM.
Ok I am off my soapbox...I am now ready to be blasted by whomever disagrees with my opinion.
PS...Pam I always value your input and opinions. You have a lot to share with everyone here and you never shy away from a tough discussion.
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