Jesse's surgery is Monday morning. Please, no flames. I know every child/surgery/recovery/parents, etc is different. What I'm wondering is how much time did you as parents stay in the hospital? Was there always someone there with your child? We live 15-20 minutes from the hospital and I'm feeling guilty thinking about going home showering, regrouping, maybe even letting off some steam with a quick run. There's no problem making sure we always have someone there, we have plenty of us to make sure Jesse's not alone. but what if I left at 9am and his dad got there at 10 or 11? I feel like I'm a bad mother if I do that.
Has your experience been that your child wants you there all the time, you felt you needed to be there? Again, I know everyone is different and I'll probably be playing things by ear, but I'm just feeling the situation out.
Thanks,
Bethany
Has your experience been that your child wants you there all the time, you felt you needed to be there? Again, I know everyone is different and I'll probably be playing things by ear, but I'm just feeling the situation out.
Thanks,
Bethany
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