Hi, I noticed on another thread that JennyM and JennyRM are in their 30's and approaching surgery with young children to look after.
I am 37 with a 4 1/2 year old daughter and have just made the decision (I think) to have surgery. Now I am pregnant! - we wanted another and I didn't want to wait until after surgery and recovery as I felt that was too old for me and too big an age gap for the children. My surgeon said he would want to wait until at least a year after I have given birth before he operated. There is another poster who went ahead with surgery a year after having a baby. It sounds like she is doing great.
I was thinking I might wait until the little one is 2 or 3 (because then you have to carry them much less) depending on how much pain I am in after pregnancy.
I thought this thread would be good for mums of little uns to share our worries and experiences x
I am 37 with a 4 1/2 year old daughter and have just made the decision (I think) to have surgery. Now I am pregnant! - we wanted another and I didn't want to wait until after surgery and recovery as I felt that was too old for me and too big an age gap for the children. My surgeon said he would want to wait until at least a year after I have given birth before he operated. There is another poster who went ahead with surgery a year after having a baby. It sounds like she is doing great.
I was thinking I might wait until the little one is 2 or 3 (because then you have to carry them much less) depending on how much pain I am in after pregnancy.
I thought this thread would be good for mums of little uns to share our worries and experiences x
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