Hi Laura,
Rest assured the hostility is not to my liking either - nor I'm sure to Amanda's.
HOWEVER, we will not stop trying to help and give information to parents (information that we offer from our personal experiences and which is always greatly appreciated by the recipients of such information). I wish someone had done this for me. (By the way I would want that info to come from someone with PERSONAL experience).
I will also reiterate what Amanda stated earlier that when Celia or anyone posts about something they know about from PERSONAL experience (Spinecor, etc.), while I may not agree with everything everyone says all the time, I stay out of it because I have no PERSONAL experience with it.
Yet if Amanda or I try to give information on stapling, Celia immediately jumps in calling it "experimental" or referring to it as "unnecessary surgery", etc.
I just want parents to know of ALL the options available to them - because that is exactly what stapling is - just another option out there that may or may not be the best for a particular child. But I believe the decision should be the parent's to make. Wouldn't you want this info (from those who have been through it) if it were your child?
I hope you can appreciate and understand this.
Rest assured the hostility is not to my liking either - nor I'm sure to Amanda's.
HOWEVER, we will not stop trying to help and give information to parents (information that we offer from our personal experiences and which is always greatly appreciated by the recipients of such information). I wish someone had done this for me. (By the way I would want that info to come from someone with PERSONAL experience).
I will also reiterate what Amanda stated earlier that when Celia or anyone posts about something they know about from PERSONAL experience (Spinecor, etc.), while I may not agree with everything everyone says all the time, I stay out of it because I have no PERSONAL experience with it.
Yet if Amanda or I try to give information on stapling, Celia immediately jumps in calling it "experimental" or referring to it as "unnecessary surgery", etc.
I just want parents to know of ALL the options available to them - because that is exactly what stapling is - just another option out there that may or may not be the best for a particular child. But I believe the decision should be the parent's to make. Wouldn't you want this info (from those who have been through it) if it were your child?
I hope you can appreciate and understand this.
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