Many doctors (and patients) are afraid of pain meds because of their reputation for addiction. The thing is, if it is treating real pain, it is not like what most people think of as addiction. My son's orthopod detested the idea of Sean having anything more than regular strength tylenol for pain, but it was truly debilitating for him. He laid on the floor reading books instead of playing with his brothers. I spent months expressing my concern for the pain, we finally got an appt (thanks to our pediatrician... I love the man!) with a pain specialist. The orthopod sent the pain doc a note saying he did NOT want him on narcotics, the ped said help this boy with pain.
Pain doc prescribed a small dose of methadone and naproxen, and literally, within 24 hours, my son was able to run circles around his father when we picked him up at the airport. The only reason we have had to go up in dosage over the last 5 yrs that he has been on it was due to further surgeries or injury. And he still is on a fairly low dose, only 2x per day. We did have to switch the Naproxen to neurontin as he had a gut bleed, but truly, I am EVER so thankful for the ability to control my son's pain so he can have decent quality of life. Funny thing... the orthopod actually took the credit for sending my son to the pain doc... I didnt correct him, but OH boy was I laughing later on at home! Sheesh!
Pain can and SHOULD be treated. There are so many good drugs out there these days, and other ways to treat pain that it saddens me terribly when docs like yours are out there not really helping their patients with pain. I would HIGHLY reccomend getting in to a pain specialist. There might be a bit of a wait, but it is worth it, at least it was for my son.
Heidi
Heidi (mom to 3 boys, Sean is 9 and has LCDH, SBS, is TPN, O2, and Bipap dependent, has SVC stenosis/stent x4, severe malignant scoliosis fused twice from T1-L2, halo traction for 2 months, severe restrictive lung disease, a CVL and GT, Fundo x2, and is one of my heroes.)