It is....and that's why I posted the Marsh video. Mr Marsh explains in the video about "Compassion vs Professional detachment" at 29:30, about his son having a brain tumor who almost died when very young, (How ironic) and having to be detached from patients since it's just way too much to absorb.... He mentions that we shouldn't lose our compassion, and that it's very difficult. It's the main reason why they become doctors and surgeons....it's not about the money especially after all the debt accrued after 18 or so years in school as a specialist. Add another 10 years paying off the debt and they really don't make any money until they are in their mid 40's.
When my goddaughter was in Med school years ago, I told her that she was going to see things in pediatrics that will be just CRUSHING...she mentioned that they talk about this....and the need for professional detachment or controlling one's self emotions when things don't turn out. They have to, because these sorts of things can kill you. This is probably what happened to Dr Weiss and that is probably why he is a bracing proponent now, and not operating anymore.
The one thing we need is hope. The hope that at some point somebody is going to have an answer. Finding that somebody can be especially difficult being in pain, but it's worth it. Sometimes you have to switch doctors with new ideas. Sometimes this search can seem endless for some, but wouldn't it be a shame if it didn't happen if there was an answer? Some of us have incredible stories of our struggles with scoliosis and deformity, the changes and the sacrifices can be huge....It dictated my life for many years but I do consider myself lucky.
And I do like a good story.....a good spine story. It's what gave me the bravery to proceed with my own surgeries. Dr Boachie, the Juma Genda story in 2006.
Here is another incredible story of hope, probably one of the worst deformity cases I have seen. 28 years of waiting on AS (Ankylosing Spondylitis) I can't imagine the pain....this guy is tough. They mention that he is also osteoporotic so recovery is a slow and delicate process....
Folded man
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ycL...inaMorningPost
It's been a hard year.... 2021 will be much better.
Ed