Contemplation stage

[green m&m]

My drive home post-op was close to two hours, through NYC, with some bad pot holey roads, lots of sudden stops and it was manageable - my nurse gave me diladid before leaving to help with the pain associated with the car travel.

Had pillows to cushion me also.

It wasn't easy but it's doable.

[mabeckoff]

I have had multiple surgeries. Every ride home was 2 hours. Pillows and drugs are the answers.

[jackieg412]

The car can be tough but you can always stop and walk around for awhile. I had to do that for awhile after my first surgery.
As far as your mom's care, there are food delivery services . In this area it is pea pod. Also meals on wheels and Seattle Sutton. So that can be worked out. Also there are home services for the elderly that can visit or give you information about obtaining help.
Returning to work is very possible. One of my surgeons has had spinal fusion. I am sure he has some long days on his feet.