let your daughter ask questions, too
You have gotten some great advice and suggestions above. That was a really good list of questions to start with from AMom.
I would also ask your daughter what she wants to know the appointment. I am sure she may have fears or questions that she may be reluctant to ask, but if you let her know you will answer any question, she may feel more comfortable.
Good luck, you've come to the right place.
Gayle, age 50
Oct 2010 fusion T8-sacrum w/ pelvic fixation
Feb 2012 lumbar revision for broken rods @ L2-3-4
Sept 2015 major lumbar A/P revision for broken rods @ L5-S1
mom of Leah, 15 y/o, Diagnosed '08 with 26* T JIS (age 6)
2010 VBS Dr Luhmann Shriners St Louis
2017 curves stable/skeletely mature
also mom of Torrey, 12 y/o son, 16* T, stable