you will get through this
Hi Kat,
My daughter was also diagnosed very young, at her 6 y/o well-child check-up. I had scoliosis as a teen so it wasn't completely foreign, but I also had a hard time finding information about the young children. If you haven't been given an official name, it is juvenile scoliosis.
My daughter, like "G" in the above post, is also doing great. She will turn 10 in January and her curve is quite stable and minimal. We chose surgery because bracing was difficult emotionally at our house, but the Chris's daughter has had wonderful success with her brace, and now wears it only at night I believe. In fact, G (in the post above), and my Leah are now in basically the same place and close in age, although we have both travelled different treatment paths. Chris even kindly send me some brace shirts several years ago, and Leah still wears them nightly as jammies. We made sure surgery was a very positive event for Leah, and she remembers it without stress. For her it was a small price to pay to be rid of her brace. Each family will decide which treatment course seems most reasonable and acceptable, and with your help, your daughter will be just fine.
I originally told Leah that she had a curvy spine, because at age 6, there was no reading material that was suitable for her. She later confided in me that she was afraid that her back was curved like a pretzel, so I drew a picture of about how curved it was. She was greatly relieved. After that I made sure she got to see each x-ray and have it explained to her, so she would not worry unduly. The worrying part was my part of the deal, and I sure did plenty of it!
I would be careful to be as honest and truthful with your daughter as possible, while realizing that her questions may need just simple answers. If she needs a brace, she doesn't necessarily need to know it could be for years to come. She needs to know that for now the doctor thinks she needs to wear a brace (if it comes to that). She can know that it may be for several years, but at this age she can not comprehend the part of being skeletally mature, etc. I was careful to tell Leah that once she was done growing (with an example of a family friend she knew who was 14) that she wouldn't need to worry about a brace. I would also be very careful if she needs a brace to not make any promises or scary statements that the brace will prevent surgery. I know other parents who held out the fear of surgery as a way to increase compliance with the brace, then if the child progressed to a point of needing surgery, they were then unnecessarily terrified of it. I would try to stay very positive and in the moment when explaining things to her and answering her questions.
Scoliosis in a 7 y/o is not common, so I would try to find the best orthopedic surgeon who sees many cases of juvenile scoliosis in young children. You may have to travel for this. Most of the Shriner's Hospital for Children are experts in pediatric scoliosis, so that would be a good place to start for a second opinion. We live in Oregon, but there were really no specialists here who saw lots of young JIS cases. We never dreamed we would travel across country for the best care, but we did end up traveling to Shriners Philadelphia, and later Leah had surgery at Shriner's St Louis, because these doctors were very familiar with juvenile scoliosis.
Your beautiful, happy, healthy little girly girl is still happy and healthy and beautiful, and with your help she will get through scoliosis. I know Leah hates talking about doctor's appointments and boring x-rays, so I don't spend much time mentioning those things to her. I try not to look at her back more often than once between doctor's visits because I don't want to make her unduly concerned about her back.
Please also feel free to PM me with any questions or if I can help you in any way. We are here for you.
Last edited by leahdragonfly; 12-15-2011 at 04:13 PM.
Gayle, age 50
Oct 2010 fusion T8-sacrum w/ pelvic fixation
Feb 2012 lumbar revision for broken rods @ L2-3-4
Sept 2015 major lumbar A/P revision for broken rods @ L5-S1
mom of Leah, 15 y/o, Diagnosed '08 with 26* T JIS (age 6)
2010 VBS Dr Luhmann Shriners St Louis
2017 curves stable/skeletely mature
also mom of Torrey, 12 y/o son, 16* T, stable