Originally Posted by
KathyInIowa
Hi, Rohrer01......
I'm just curious if you remember the name of Dr. Perra's nurse that was awful to you. I had surgery with Dr. Perra and am 10-weeks post op. I do not share your opinion regarding his bedside manner, but I know that everyone has their own experience. I actually like him and he treats me in a way that makes me feel confident about what is going on.
But, I do share your opinion regarding his nurse. I have been with their team for about 18 months. In the beginning, his nurse was nice and as time has gone on, I have developed the opinion that she has no compassion for her job or his patients. She seems somewhat "proficient" at her job in that she does get around to answering my emails - but only when I follow up with a phone call saying "did you get my email?" More than once, she has made me feel like I am "bothering her". It's not just me - my husband also notices her attitude.
On my 6-week post op check up, my husband was not in Minneapolis with me so my son took me. Mind you, he had never been to appointments with me so he was unaware of who or what anything was. Even HE noticed her attitude! On that particular day, the 4 of us were in the exam room and we were looking at the light up screen that had my xrays on it. I was asking Dr. Perra questions about my spine. I could see out of the corner of my eye that she was just GLARING at me. So, I shifted my eyes to meet hers and she immediately looked away. I have no idea what she was thinking at the time, but I feel really weird. Her name is Julie. It makes me feel like she doesn't like me (not that I care if she likes me or not) but I can honestly say, I'm not a "pain in the butt" patient. Most of my questions and issues I have after seeing them, I actually consult with my local orthoped. So, it's not like I'm constantly nagging them.
I feel like he is a top-notch scoli surgeon and has a great reputation in the MidWest. He has always treated me with respect, but he is direct and to the point. He "tells it like it is" which is good for me personally. If someone is wishy-washy with me, I start thinking of all kinds of ways to get me out of a situation. But, for me, I needed surgery had he had the job of telling me that. I didn't like it, but I knew he was right.
Anyway, I found your comment about his nurse interesting.
Kathy