Originally posted by mariaf
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But what if it's a lower cost. What if your kid is having about the same level of discomfort as someone wearing braces on their teeth. Then the perceived benefit becomes very important - if it's a big benefit you press forward and if it's a small benefit you don't. If you are led to believe that there's *no* benefit to bracing, then why put your kid through any level of discomfort? And, if you're told that there's no benefit *and* that people who brace their children are brow-beating them and don't care about their child's pain, then why put your child and yourself through that discomfort.
Bracing is tough on kids, but it's also tough on parents. Chipping away at parent's confidence may easily be enough to get them to throw in the towel.
What Flerc says about doing the same thing in the surgical section is correct, I think. Deciding to put your kid through surgery is *very* difficult. I can almost guarantee you that I could go into the surgical section and raise enough reasonable doubt about the benefits of surgery along with some statements about how unfeeling it is to subject your child to all that pain with no guarantee that they would have progressed without the surgery and get at least one parent to put it off. Maybe they wouldn't stop, but they'd let their kid go an extra 10 degrees or so. Or maybe they'd wait 6 months and their kid would have stopped progressing, and then they wouldn't have surgery at all, and then I could point out that surgery wasn't needed to stop the progression.
So, yes, I absolutely believe it's possible to sway parent's opinions. I believe it so strongly that I absolutely do not do any of the things I just mentioned in the surgical section - because I don't want my feelings to influence their decision. And I think, as Flerc says, that everyone else here believes it strongly enough that if I started to do that - if I approached some parent about to go through surgery and started going on and on about how unfeeling it was to put your child through that - that I'd be swiftly booted off the forum.
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