I have been lurking here for sometime. You guys are awesome! My wife is scheduled for March 15th. Have learned so much from you guys. I think I have the post op stuff down pretty good. Even considering getting here one of those recliners that has the remote to almost put the chair in a standing position. She/we quit smoking. Yeah!!!
My/our problem seems to be more of an issue of her worrying about ME, she is killing herself trying to make things as easy as she can for me for when she comes home. Believe me, I got this! I am remodeling our den and turning it in to a master bedroom suite, easy access and all that stuff..... saved up a month of vacation to be with her.....blah blah. Any ideas how I can get her to focus on herself and and to relax and enjoy the pre-op days as best she can?
Just a ramble...I am sure I will post something more coherent soon.....who am I kiding I am sure I will start have tons of questions that only my mind would ever think of.
Thanks for all the help ya'll have already given without even knowing!
Toby
My/our problem seems to be more of an issue of her worrying about ME, she is killing herself trying to make things as easy as she can for me for when she comes home. Believe me, I got this! I am remodeling our den and turning it in to a master bedroom suite, easy access and all that stuff..... saved up a month of vacation to be with her.....blah blah. Any ideas how I can get her to focus on herself and and to relax and enjoy the pre-op days as best she can?
Just a ramble...I am sure I will post something more coherent soon.....who am I kiding I am sure I will start have tons of questions that only my mind would ever think of.
Thanks for all the help ya'll have already given without even knowing!
Toby
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