okay..
So there I am. Picking up my daughter from school early (i know i shouldnt, I just finally felt better and wanted to.. Have fun. Very well aware it was 3rd time this year ive picked her up early) and I run in to the incredibly rude Kindergarden teacher. Wow, this one is amazing... talk about disrespectful.. and gosh, shes so quick and casual about it, it is obviously a part of what she views as "defining herself". *sigh*
!!Back on track!!
She says "Hello, what brings you here"
I say" oh just picking up tessa finally feel better and can walk.. So, were gonna go find some fun."
She says "Oh whats wrong with you?"
I say "Oh just scoliosis issues"
she says "No No, I have scoliosis, it doesnt cause me pain, i can walk just fine, MY doctor said it was worst he had ever seen when i was 19"
I say" Oh my goodness! Wow (finally have something in common with the Mrs meanie) I never knew. "
she says "Yes, well it doesnt cause me pain. You dont have pain."
I say "Oh yes. Unfortunatly I have to get these shots in my back.."
she says "Scoliosis doesnt cause pain. I, have scoliosis and I dont have pain"
I say "Yes, well, the curve doesnt hurt atall, just the ever growing area of degeneration where the facet.."
She says "No."
I say " well, new mexico pain and spine ever 3mos to 4mos and when they give the shots my leggs sometimes go a little "
she says "nope. No."
.... Dear god. and on she went without hearing a word out of my mouth. So very dispresectful...
And since I wont just stand and be treated like that, I asked her about her rods, if they had ever broken or needed revisions.. then went in to the story of the 13y boy who had the increadibly successful fusion using his own bone marrow to help the fusion process along. Heck I didnt know what else to do. Thank god my daughter came in after that. Off we went in seach of perfect gift and get busy with crafts.
I guess my question is this... When you run in to someone like this, who you will invaribly run in to every so often... How do you handle it? Or even, were any of you in this situation and had thought of a way you wished you had handled it?
Bear in mind ive always a little one in toe and must be careful about the manner in which I present myself. Rudeness just wont do.
Thanks for any/all input.
*hugg*
Dani
So there I am. Picking up my daughter from school early (i know i shouldnt, I just finally felt better and wanted to.. Have fun. Very well aware it was 3rd time this year ive picked her up early) and I run in to the incredibly rude Kindergarden teacher. Wow, this one is amazing... talk about disrespectful.. and gosh, shes so quick and casual about it, it is obviously a part of what she views as "defining herself". *sigh*
!!Back on track!!
She says "Hello, what brings you here"
I say" oh just picking up tessa finally feel better and can walk.. So, were gonna go find some fun."
She says "Oh whats wrong with you?"
I say "Oh just scoliosis issues"
she says "No No, I have scoliosis, it doesnt cause me pain, i can walk just fine, MY doctor said it was worst he had ever seen when i was 19"
I say" Oh my goodness! Wow (finally have something in common with the Mrs meanie) I never knew. "
she says "Yes, well it doesnt cause me pain. You dont have pain."
I say "Oh yes. Unfortunatly I have to get these shots in my back.."
she says "Scoliosis doesnt cause pain. I, have scoliosis and I dont have pain"
I say "Yes, well, the curve doesnt hurt atall, just the ever growing area of degeneration where the facet.."
She says "No."
I say " well, new mexico pain and spine ever 3mos to 4mos and when they give the shots my leggs sometimes go a little "
she says "nope. No."
.... Dear god. and on she went without hearing a word out of my mouth. So very dispresectful...
And since I wont just stand and be treated like that, I asked her about her rods, if they had ever broken or needed revisions.. then went in to the story of the 13y boy who had the increadibly successful fusion using his own bone marrow to help the fusion process along. Heck I didnt know what else to do. Thank god my daughter came in after that. Off we went in seach of perfect gift and get busy with crafts.
I guess my question is this... When you run in to someone like this, who you will invaribly run in to every so often... How do you handle it? Or even, were any of you in this situation and had thought of a way you wished you had handled it?
Bear in mind ive always a little one in toe and must be careful about the manner in which I present myself. Rudeness just wont do.
Thanks for any/all input.
*hugg*
Dani
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