If you read my post, "questions", you'll know my husband made a comment about coddling Jesse. I should add that he is Jesse's step-dad (they are very close). And 10 years ago when we started dating his daughter had disc surgery. Maybe he was comparing it to that.
Anyway, mh didn't go to pre-op, but I believe he is starting to get a clearer picture of how the road to recovery could look. Just telling him about the pain medication, (the drugs/duration, etc), I think he realized how huge this surgery is. Also, the visual of where the incision would run and the words "dissecting muscles" had him questioning if this surgery was really necessary and what would happen if we left it alone. He asks these questions every few weeks, so I know he gets nervous thinking about it.
He'll be my rock on the 15th and do his best to keep me sane.
Bethany
Anyway, mh didn't go to pre-op, but I believe he is starting to get a clearer picture of how the road to recovery could look. Just telling him about the pain medication, (the drugs/duration, etc), I think he realized how huge this surgery is. Also, the visual of where the incision would run and the words "dissecting muscles" had him questioning if this surgery was really necessary and what would happen if we left it alone. He asks these questions every few weeks, so I know he gets nervous thinking about it.
He'll be my rock on the 15th and do his best to keep me sane.
Bethany
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