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    Hello everyone! My name is Rachel, and I am in the seventh grade at the age of twelve years. Um....I've only had one official visit to the specialist so far so I don't know all of the fancy terms for everything yet. However, I'll try my best to explain the curves.

    My spine is normal up to the end of my throat, where it goes into a 52 degree curve to the left. Further down my spine, in the lower back area, I have a curve of 62 degrees. At least now I know why my left shoulder blade sticks out a bit!

    At first I was scared and even cried; my first diagnosis was at school, where I denied even having the possibility of having it and made the excuse of a leg being shorter than the other. At school we all teased each other; scoliosis at my school became as common an insult as meat-head in kindergarten. Naturally my first response upon my doctor telling me of a single 32 degree curve and a brace needed made me stumble, but I learned to accept it and was thankful I didn't need surgery. Boy, was that a mistake.

    I was sent to a specialist so he could tell me all about my new brace, but somehow the x-ray was lost in the transfer. A new one was taken, and my doctor made a huge mistake. The curve he saw was double the size he had thought and there was a second one. This is the part where I cried like mad, but eventually I got over it and made the safe statement of my delight that I was not in danger of death. However, should I let my curves go on without treatment, I could be in danger of death. The upper curve would crush my heart and the lower, my lungs. Obviously I will need surgery.

    This is where I haven't the foggiest notion as to where I'm headed. If you read anything you know to be wrong please post and tell me, this is why I joined up here! The surgery will be some time in June so that I can finish up the school year. The MRI will be some time in March because it doesn't affect anything. All I know about the surgery is that they'll cut open my back at some point, and at some point before they'll sedate me. The reason for my back being opened is for the insertion of stuff to straighten my spine out a bit. My spine will never be perfectly straight, or so says my specialist. After the surgery, which takes all day, I will be in the hospital for an estimated three days counting the surgery. On the second day they will have me sitting up, and walking around on the third. The only way this will affect my life at all is that I can't play any contact sports for 365 days after my surgery.

    Okay enough depressing junk! I'm ready to gush about the good things. Let's start with the whole not-gonna-die part. That's pretty dang cool in my opinion. Also, since I have two severe curves, I figure I'll get a bit taller. That's great seeing as my pathetic 4"11 and 3/4 could certainly improve. My shortest friend is 5"1 and growing fast. What else...after this I can quickly end any discussion involving who suffered most. "I broke my finger." "I broke my arm." "I had surgery involving rods being placed in my back!" "........"

    Yeah, so...that's about it. Any advice/tip/comment is more than welcome. Despite overcoming total panic I doubt my nerves are going to go away. Other stuff, um, I'm in Southern California and getting my surgery done at a Kaiser hospital. I don't think I should say which one, although I doubt any of you lovely people would use personal information about me at all. Questions I will answer to the best of my ability. To cover a few bases here I enjoy writing, reading, singing, and anything involving Pokemon or the Warriors saga by Erin Hunter. I am in all honors classes and a B in P.E. is all that keeps me from my coveted straight As. I've just been informed you can write extra credit papers for P.E. so that will be changing shortly. Yeah...so again, hi! Sorry if this post is too long.
    Last edited by rachey353; 02-07-2008, 08:48 AM.

    -Rachel~13~Surgery happened
    -It was July 10th
    -Curves were 57 degrees in upper back and 67 in lower pre-op
    -Dunno all of the terms yet so idk where I fused to or w/e...
    -Would love to chat with anybody at all, especially people with comments/concerns/advice!

  • #2
    Rachey, I don't have first hand experience with surgery (my daughter is currently being braced), but I wanted to welcome you to the boards and wish you good luck.

    There are many helpful knowledgable people who have been invaluable to me and I'm sure they will be able to post helpful information for you. If you have a chance (and haven't already) you might find it informative to read through some of the older surgery posts - I learned a lot of information from them and hopefully you could too.

    Another FYI, there is also a website called spinekids which is aimed specifically at kids (on this forum you'll find a lot of adults and/or parents of people with scoliosis posting in addition to teenagers)

    I wish you the best of everything in your journey ahead!!!!
    daughter, 12, diagnosed 8/07 with 19T/13L
    -Braced in spinecor 10/07 - 8/12 with excellent in brace correction and stable/slightly decreased out of brace curves.
    -Introduced Providence brace as adjunct at night in 11/2011 in anticipation of growth spurt. Curves still stable.
    -Currently in Boston Brace. Growth spurt is here and curves (and rotation) have increased to 23T/17L

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    • #3
      Thank you for the welcome! I actually was digging through the older posts like mad before my account was activated and the permission form my dad sent was accepted. Some stuff was odd, some useful, and some brought new questions that were soon answered by other threads. Now that I'm an official member I can see all the posts, even the really really old ones from 2004 and stuff, so that's great.

      The rest of this post is directed at people who have had/know tons about surgery.

      I'm wondering about something my school does. Every Friday we run, and it varies by semester. First semester we run for 15 minutes, with 6 laps being an A, 5 a B, and so on. Second semester we run 22 minutes with 8 laps being an A, 7 a B, and so on. During the run there have been times when people were bumped, or slipped, or tripped on a rock or a blade of grass or something. Am I going to be banned from it? Not that I'd mind, I hate the run test. We also have units, and I know I can't do things like full Basketball or Soccer games, but in units we just work on individual aspects of games like dribbling in B-ball or passing in Soccer. We also do weight room, where we lift weights. Can I do that? I really like it a lot.

      One question the threads raised that was never answered (so far, I'm not even close to done reading) was appearance changes. I saw people gained on average an inch or so in height, is that correct usually? Also I saw a few posts about weight loss, which was good, but then I saw a few about actually gaining weight. I'm already in danger of being overweight for my current height, so I figured after surgery I'd be okay. But if I gain both height and weight I'll be right back where I started, except banned from exercise at school. That's bbaadd because I'll probably be told to do yoga or something, and I can't even put one arm over my shoulder and have it meet the other behind my back, let alone fancy stretches and turning myself into a knotted mess of limbs. Unless my inflexibility is because of scoliosis? Now I'm really confused.
      Last edited by rachey353; 02-09-2008, 04:00 PM.

      -Rachel~13~Surgery happened
      -It was July 10th
      -Curves were 57 degrees in upper back and 67 in lower pre-op
      -Dunno all of the terms yet so idk where I fused to or w/e...
      -Would love to chat with anybody at all, especially people with comments/concerns/advice!

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      • #4
        Hi Rachey,
        Welcome to the forum. I'm Megan (my middle name is Danielle, so that's where I get my user name, dani). I had the spinal fusion surgery last May. My curves were in the upper 50s lower 60s. If you don't mind, I'll just give you my experience and try to answer some of your questions. I'm not athletic at all. I'm a musician so I let my fingers do the exercising . So, I don't really know how my life would be right now if I played sports. Ok, here's my surgery experience: I have a wonderful doctor/surgeon. He's done this surgery so many times that he is really laid back about it. He told me I would be in the hospital 5-7 days and that most kids are back in school after 2 weeks. Well, that was not exactly my experience. I had the surgery on a Tuesday morning (took about 4 hours). By Thursday I was sitting up (but hating it!). I was also throwing up. I had really not wanted to throw up because I thought it would hurt a lot, but it wasn't that bad. I guess I was on enough drugs that I didn't really care. Well, I didn't stop throwing up so they kept me until Monday and then let me go because they thought being at home I would be able to recover better. Wrong! I ended up having to go back to the hospital on Wednesday because I was getting dehydrated since I could not keep anything down. So, they took some kind of x-ray and stuck an IV in me. They also put me on some different medicine. I was able to go home for good Friday. I started recovering nicely.
        Well, sorry for that super long paragraph. For about 6 weeks after the surgery I was very weak. I laid around a lot and was not allowed to pick up anything over 5 pounds for several weeks. As time went on I got stronger and got back into the swing of things. I did get an inch (something like that) taller. I think I lost like 12 pounds after surgery. But, since I threw up so much that was not surprising. I am not able to bend my back. I know that sounds really restrictive, but you learn to cope bending from your waist. Every one's experience is different. I read so many stories and it was good to hear other's experiences, it got me as prepared as I think I could have been.
        Anyway, I hope I answered some of your questions. I have a slide show of my surgery experience on my blog. You can go to it here
        Sorry for such a long post!!
        17 years old
        Surgery May 22nd 2007
        John 3:16

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        • #5
          Megan,

          I watched your video and it was awesome. You have an amazing spirit. As you can see below, my daughter just got her fusion done 5 months ago. You didn't say your age, but you are probably close to her age. May you continue to have an excellent recovery. Thank you for sharing. God bless you.


          P.S. My niece's name is Megan and my son's girlfriend is also Megan. Both without the "h."
          Melissa
          From Bucks County, Pa., USA

          Mom to Matthew,19, Jessica, 17, and Nicole, 14
          Nicole had surgery with Dr. Dormans on 9/12/07 at Children's Hospital of Phila. She is fused T-2 - L-3

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          • #6
            Welcome!

            Hi Rachel!!! I just wanted to give you another warm welcome to the forum. I hope you learn a lot from it and get some support and encouragement too. I had surgery almost 3 years ago when I was 16 but didn't find the forum until afterwards...I wish I would have known about it before like you do.

            I also wanted to say sorry that you have to have surgery but I'm glad you're looking at the positives in it.

            I first of all wanted to just explain the surgery a bit more for you. They will give you general anesthesia so you'll be asleep for all of it. The point of the surgery is to stop the curves from getting worse. They will correct your curves as much as they can but as you said they won't be perfect...usually the younger you are the more correction the surgeon can get on your back. Then they put bone in your back to fuse some of the vertebrate together so that your curves won't get any worse. It will take about a year for the bone to fuse completely so they also put two rods in that hold your back in place until the bone fuses.

            As far as what you can and cannot do after your surgery...it varies from doctor to doctor. For the first six months, I wasn't supposed to run, ride a bike, or lift over 5 lbs. Then after that I could lift 10 lbs. I was also told no contact sports like you were. They told me also to not bend or twist my back as much as possible.

            My surgery was about 4 hrs long. I was told the hospital stay would be 5-7 days and ended up being 7 for me. I threw up a lot too afterwards but they said this was because my intestines didn't wake up on time...most people don't have this problem. I started sitting up on the 3rd day and taking a couple steps on the 4th. That week was hard but most of it is a blur...the pain meds help a lot. I would recommend bringing movies and music...they helped a lot too.

            I had my surgery in the end of June and had no problem going back to school in September. I did get an extra set of my books to keep at home so that I wouldn't have to carry them back and forth to school all the time.

            Do you have anymore questions? I would love to answer any more that you have and I'm sure that others would too. Hope you're doing well!!
            20 year old college student
            Pre-op: 3 curves (30-50-30 degrees)
            Spinal Fusion: T4-L1 June 2005
            Broken rod/failed fusion found Jan. 2007
            Revision surgery:May 21, 2008 - Dr Tribus @ UW Hospital in Madison (found only 2 levels fused from previous surgery)

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            • #7
              Megan:

              Wow, you had a rough time. I've seen people talk about throwing up, ouchies! I think that'd hurt my throat more than my back. Sometimes I think my throat is more tender than most people's, because even light coughs hurt sort of badly so you can imagine how bad throwing up is. An athlete I am not, I just semi-like sports. I can't help that I stink at them, and believe me, I've tried hard to improve. I enjoy singing much much more because that I can do. Ah, well. Hopefully I won't stay in the hospital as long as you. My dad stayed a few days once because of some infection or something; the mattress hurt him so much he thought something was wrong with his kidney! I'm okay with bending at the knees, you're supposed to bend like that anyway. If you don't you can damage your back muscles, scoliosis or no scoliosis.

              iluvmath!:

              I actually found this site off of Google. I was looking for more info on scoliosis and found the NSF website, which had a link to here. Yay for Google! I'm glad I'm twelve, maybe they'll even get my curves to half their sizes and I'll wear a brace for a bit or something. I've seen stories of people with curves only a few degrees less than mine, one almost exactly the same and the same spots, who got to some number less than 20* on the worst one and some number less than 10* on the other. I'm just going to keep my hopes down and assume those were lucky, but it could happen...

              No lifting? Awwww. But no running, too! That's good, won't have to run until January. I've heard tons abut the pain meds, I just hope I don't say any stupid random stuff like "My pony wants to eat a fluffy pink beetle!" or something. Movies and music, sounds like a plan! My phone lays music really well so I'll bring that and a charger. As for the heavy textbooks, my school already gives us two sets of books so that's no problem for me. Thank you so much for all the lovely advice. I actually do have a question. I'm planning on flying to D.C. from Southern California sometimes in August, so if my surgery is in late June will I be okay for flying across the whole country alone? It would be my first plane trip, so I don't know about turbulence and stuff like that.

              -Rachel~13~Surgery happened
              -It was July 10th
              -Curves were 57 degrees in upper back and 67 in lower pre-op
              -Dunno all of the terms yet so idk where I fused to or w/e...
              -Would love to chat with anybody at all, especially people with comments/concerns/advice!

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              • #8
                Megan,
                what an uplifting video, thank you for sharing. That you are smiling in every photo shows what an amazing spirit you have. Best wishes to you, you are almost at the coveted 1 yr. mark!

                Rachey,
                Welcome to the forum. I am in the So. Calif. area also and my son had surgery 2 yrs. ago. We'd be happy to answer any questions you may have. If you are interested, there are scoliosis support groups in L.A., Orange and San Diego counties for whichever is closer for you.

                Renee
                Last edited by flowerpower; 02-11-2008, 12:13 PM.

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                • #9
                  I just joined to lol.

                  Hi, We're so alike! I'm 4"11 and 3/4 too! lol. We both have MRI's in March and both of us have a shoulder that sticks out! The surgery deffinatly has risks but they're pretty small chances of these risks, so that's good, right. I know alittle bit about straigtening the spine but not as much as most of these people. All I can say is good luck to you.
                  I'm 19 years old, had surgery 5 years ago
                  3 curves Middle curve - 65 fused to 13 Bottom curve 35- fixed on it's own to 16!
                  Fused from C7 to L1

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                  • #10
                    Flowerpower;

                    I do actually have a question. How soon after the surgery would you say your son would have been capable of flying on a plane? As I said to iluvmath! I need to know in order to cancel/postpone/go ahead with plans for D.C. this summer.
                    About support groups, I think my friends are all the support group I need.

                    Jennybear;

                    That's so weird! What a coincidence. How old are you? If we're the same age then woahhhhh.
                    Yup small chances are always good in the risk category, especially when messing with the spine.
                    All I know about straightening the spine could be placed in an M&M. I mean, how can they do that without making your skin all tight and stretched out? If you know I'd love to share your knowledge.

                    -Rachel~13~Surgery happened
                    -It was July 10th
                    -Curves were 57 degrees in upper back and 67 in lower pre-op
                    -Dunno all of the terms yet so idk where I fused to or w/e...
                    -Would love to chat with anybody at all, especially people with comments/concerns/advice!

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                    • #11
                      I'm 13 so I'm only a year older than you. I think they do stretch out your skin probably a little bit ( anybody correct me if I'm wrong) but they probably try not to stretch it out to much. I think you should have that skin though it's just waiting to be stretched out because I'm not tight to the bone skinny because I'm slouched over to one side all the time so We do have the skin to be stretched out so dont be worried it wont reach cause it will.
                      I'm 19 years old, had surgery 5 years ago
                      3 curves Middle curve - 65 fused to 13 Bottom curve 35- fixed on it's own to 16!
                      Fused from C7 to L1

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