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Singer
01-20-2008, 07:21 AM
Hi all -- I am now 7 months post-op and -- to be honest -- I'm still having a bit of a rough time. I am disappointed that I still have the level of pain that I do. What I find most difficult of all is finding the balance between staying active and overdoing it. I have to walk or work out every day to keep my weak leg as strong as possible, and while it feels pretty good while I'm doing it, my torso and my lower back are always very sore. By 5 p.m. I'm walking like the Tin Man!

I'm also having a tough time getting off the last of the Percocet -- and I'm taking such a little dose of it every 6-7 hours, it's like spitting in the ocean - but it does take the edge off. I'm amazed at the people who are able to do without pain killers 3 or 4 months after surgery.

Anyway, thanks for listening to me whine about this -- just feeling quite discouraged at the moment.

Karen Ocker
01-20-2008, 12:20 PM
Chris:

It takes a LOOONG time. I was off narcotic at 3 months but was on neurontin(Gabapentin) along with Aleve, for the next 3. It seemed like forever. Nobody over 50 can be off all pain meds and function. I was not really pain free of a year and half post-op.

It seems Chris, you think something is wrong with you. By my own experience, YOUR experience is similar to mine.

Just allow yourself to heal one day at a time.

trulyaries
01-20-2008, 09:18 PM
Chris -
I'm 8.5 months post-op, still taking prescription NSAIDs and Gabapentin. In fact, I have been on NSAIDS or painkillers of one kind or another since before my first surgery in 2000. Although I don't think it's as severe as the problem you had, I have some weakness in one leg. I'm heading into my fourth surgery next month because of continuing problems with nerve pain and bending over.

The one difference between us? You walk like the Tinman, I walk like the Hunchback of Notre Dame!! :D Just wanted you to know that you have company - and that I too have my moments of being discouraged and whining - yes, lots of whining!

Singer
01-21-2008, 06:44 AM
Thank you both.

Trulyaries, I consider my recovery a walk in the park compared to your situation.

I appreciate the discussion of meds, because sometimes I feel like the general feeling on the Forum is to get off the meds as soon as possible because you'll feel so much better if you do. Well, I can't function without the tiny dose of Percocet I take.

I can't wait for spring, because my muscles are so much more relaxed when the weather is warm!!!

trulyaries
01-21-2008, 09:19 AM
I can't wait for spring, because my muscles are so much more relaxed when the weather is warm!!!
Ditto, ditto, and more ditto!!

Linda W
01-21-2008, 05:53 PM
Chris,

I'm also walking the line between staying active and overdoing. My back feels like a lobster claw or bear claw clenching by late afternoon most days. I too think I should be beyond this level of discomfort. At my 6-month checkup last week, Dr. Rand told me I was totally "on target" in recovery for someone in "my age group". I would seriously like to change my age group.

He signed a release for me to start a PT program other than just walking. He told me to make "quality of life" my first priority and exercise secondary. I took that information in and then my Type A personality took over, and I walked farther and more quickly than I should have two days in a row -- probably because it is so darn cold here in New England. Then I was not careful while putting a pan of Brownies in the oven for my 12 year old son's Patriots Party on Sunday. Now, I am walking around like Lurch. I'd say you, TrulyAries and I should have no problem coming up with an idea for our Halloween costumes in the fall. My new matra is "quality of life, quality of life". It sounds like a good one for many of us!

Go Patriots!
Linda W.

trulyaries
01-22-2008, 08:24 AM
Now, I am walking around like Lurch. I'd say you, TrulyAries and I should have no problem coming up with an idea for our Halloween costumes in the fall.
Linda W.
Thanks, Linda - LOL! Since I'm having surgery again in 3 weeks, I hope to change my costume to the Statue of Liberty. If my surgery is successful it will be very appropriate. If not, I can go on the attack with my torch! :D

Singer
01-22-2008, 09:04 AM
Linda -- a bear claw clenching -- that's it exactly! Or, as I complain to my husband, I feel like I'm in one of those medieval vises with with screws that slowly tighten around my torso as the day wears on.

I don't know about you, but I feel it's a bit too soon to be chasing "quality of life" issues. For me right now, it's all about trying to heal without mishap. I'll be thinking more about "quality of life" when I can tie my own #@#$* shoelaces, thank you very much!!!!!!!

(Not ranting at you Linda, just letting off steam ;) )

Linda W
01-22-2008, 11:58 AM
Chris,

This is the correct place to let off steam! Some days I am also tired of acting like the "Little Engine" and wish I had a recovery GPS to get to the other side of the mountain. I had to take 2 mg of Dilaudid last night because of my over achieving personality and poor judgement -- something I have not had to do since the first of December.

I have given up on the goal of ever being able to tie my sneakers. I have those curly-que stretchy laces in all my sneakers. If I grab the sneaker tongue firmly with the grabber and pull up, I can usually get them on without having to use a shoe horn in the other hand. Talk about multi-tasking. I manage the low cut sneaker socks pretty effectively but find that trouser socks are my current nemesis. If I am able to get my toes in them and scuff around on the carpet to advance them, I find myself looking for another human to help me pull them up. It is quite a vision of loveliness if you can visualize it. I can't wait for Spring so I can go without socks. I have an event in June that will require wearing a dress and hose. I guess I should start practicing now to get the blasted panty hose on without putting my fist through them.

My personal interpretation of "quality of life" is functioning as best I can without putting my pain level at risk. I have a 40 year old friend who had her fusion surgery a month earlier than mine. She drove at three weeks and went skiing this weekend! Talk about disparity in our own healing times! My husband keeps reminding me that she is almost 20 years younger than me.

I am certain that our surgeons are saying that we, "Little Engines", are on track for our "age group". Hang in there and let off your steam here whenever you need to just like the rest of us.

Linda W.

Geish
01-22-2008, 12:31 PM
Do you have a "sock putter-on-er"? I was given a great one, but it can be ordered from www.sammomnspreston.com and is item # E2087. It runs $18.35 and can even be used with pantyhose. I really like this one because it collapses small enough not to stretch out women's socks. I don't have any answers for tying shoelaces, but I hope the sock putter on er can be as helpful to you as it is to me. Good luck.
Alicia

lelc2002@yahoo
01-23-2008, 07:50 AM
Chris---Looking back at my recovery, I felt it was very difficult at about 6 mos. I was probably the most down then believe it or not. I thought I would be back to my normal self by then & that set me up for some dissappointment. By 6 months you are thankful you can do much more but still you want to do all you did before & you just can't. It is very frustrating! It does build your patience as you go on though!
Realize how far you have come! It is a long road but gets better every month!
Lynne :)
48 yrs old this mth!!

Susie*Bee
01-23-2008, 08:30 AM
Don't we all wonder "how long will this take?"!!!! At 8.5 months now, I am feeling and doing so much better, but I still can't do what I'd like to be able to do. Sometimes it is just plain discouraging. Yesterday by the end of the day I was feeling hunched over, achy--including some new aches I haven't had yet-- in the muscles (and also occasional sharp pains) in my shoulder/scapula area, and my neck was bothering me too,and felt more than a little disheartened... I know I am doing so much better, but really, how long does it take until we are "all the way better"???? I know that is a rhetorical question and we are all different.

I also realize full well that I had 4 days of doing more than normal, which contributed to my condition. But life is full of "doing more" days--or should be. All I did was normal stuff during the day on Saturday, (and let me just mention on the side that I made an apple crisp for a church dinner and somehow blew my thumb out while peeling apples, so that I was unable to bring it around to grasp anything...) then went to a wedding and reception that afternoon/evening, a full day of church related things on Sunday followed by a two hour trip to my daughter's, where we spent the night. Went on a side-trip to buy my Total Gym exercise thing so I can work on squats (who'd have ever thought I'd be buying something like that or even doing all this exercise stuff!), hung out at my daughter's the rest of the day, not doing much of anything, then the trip home... Yesterday was just a long shopping day--grocery store, Wal-Mart, etc., then back home. We live about 45 minutes from the "shops"... Every time we go I wonder when I'll ever be able to do it by myself again. I can't fathom carrying grocery bags and getting them in the van--or taking them back out at home. I know I could take a reacher with me to the grocery store to get things from lower shelves, but.... (!) there's all the rest to contend with. Last time we went shopping and I tried getting a can from a lower shelf, doing a fast, awkward little half squat, I knocked a can off. I knew I couldn't get all the way to the floor to pick it up, so I just moved it with my foot so it would be out of the way. I know the other people in the aisle probably thought I was really rude and lazy. I WISHED I had my cane with me, but I never use it anymore. I didn't know whether to say something like "I'm sorry, but I can't bend down to get that." As it was, I just walked on...

I'm sorry this is so long, but I guess I am venting too. I feel good about how far I've come, but I don't know if there will actually be a time when I feel "finished" with recovery. I think I am just feeling discouraged at the moment. By the way, my thumb is getting a little better, but not back to normal yet. At least I can hit the space key on the keyboard with it now, which I couldn't before, and can also hold a glass again, but with a little pain still. Thanks for letting me blow off steam a little. :o

Singer
01-23-2008, 08:49 AM
I remember that about you, Lynne...

And Susie,

I know other people have told me it takes a year or 18 months to feel normal again.

BUT -- what I suspect is, the tough part for me is realizing that I will probably need to make peace with some PERMANENT changes in how I live my life -- for instance, I don't see what I will ever again be charging around the back yard with a wheelbarrow full of mulch, or shoveling snow off the driveway. Of course, I could no longer do that in the last couple of years before my surgery anyway.

It's funny you mentioned the supermarket, because that's where I feel my limitations very keenly also. I still can't really squat because of my weak leg, and when the cart starts to get heavy I get an almost panicky feeling and rush to the checkout line, very anxious to get home.

On the OTHER hand -- (are you getting whiplash following this?) -- the reality is, I would have become increasingly disabled had I NOT had the surgery. A fused spine is not natural, and it is limiting. But so is severe scoliosis. The hardest part about this condition, for me, is ACCEPTING the fact that EITHER WAY, with or without a fused spine, my back will never be "normal."

I guess I always thought I'd be facing these kinds of issues in my 70s -- not my 50s!!!

CHRIS WBS
01-23-2008, 09:39 AM
Ladies,

Reading your posts concerns me a great deal. As a single self-supporting female, I cannot afford to be off from work for months and months recuperating from major back surgery. I will have to go on short-term disability followed by long-term disability which will pay me 60% of my salary. If this stretches out to a year or more of not being able to work, this will present a real financial hardship for me. How can you work if you’re in pain or doped up on pain medication? I would not be able to concentrate. I can tell you that when I went to the last support group meeting, the women who were there who had surgeries in their 50s spoke about a two to three-year recovery period. None of them worked though. They were either retired or they did not have to work. Are there any other women in my position and how have you managed?

Chris

Singer
01-23-2008, 10:00 AM
Chris, you will no doubt get some reassuring replies but first let me tell you that even with the limitations and discomfort I still have, if I had to go back to work in an office I have no doubt that I COULD. I am not in agony, and I am not doped up (not anymore, anyway :rolleyes: ). I am extremely fortunate that I don't have to work, but I think the people who have the most problems with working post-op are those who have very physical jobs, like sales reps or restaurant workers.

I have even started singing again (little church gigs) and I'm doing okay. My point is, despite my whining and carrying on, I'm pretty active. It's all relative.

suzyjay
01-23-2008, 10:29 AM
Chris
I know how you feel I am the main support of my family. I was fused from T4 to L4; I was 44 yr old when I had the surgery. I went back to work full time at 5 months post op. I was up at 5:00 am to get ready for work and commute to New York and back and home by 5:30-6:00 pm. ( an hour commute )and had a staph infection on my spine and on the hardware, (and still have it). I would have returned to work at 4 months maybe even sooner but that was when the doctor discovered my infection and the pain was very bad so I couldn’t do much of anything. Returning to work I was very weak for the first two weeks and thought I am not going to make it; I was so tired, probably because I was still on pain meds and an antibiotic for the infection. Also so for a month I had an IV line in my arm every night I had to give may IV antibiotic for the staph infection. Traveling to work and working all day with the tubing coming out my arm (trying to cover it up so people would stop asking what that thing was). My surgery will be 1 yr on Feb 7 and I feel good and workout 5 days week and have been for about 2 months. I will have to go back in for surgery to remove the rods because that is the only way to get rid of this terrible staph infection (that I got the hospital – NYU Medical Center). If I could do it, anyone without major complications, can do it. Good Luck.
Sue

Susie*Bee
01-23-2008, 11:08 AM
Chris WBS--I too, like Singer, could tough it out if ABSOLUTELY necessary. I would just have some limits and be exhausted--but I dealt with that before surgery, too. My job at school is (in my mind) fairly physically demanding--definitely not a desk-type job. Since we decided I wouldn't go back yet, we're just cutting back some on extras--plus my pay at the school wasn't that great. And I know what I would need to do, if on my own, at the grocery store and places like that. I would have my reacher with me, would ask for help if needed, and would bag everything up in small quantities so the bags would be manageable. I could probably stop at the service desk and ask is they had someone who could help me out with my bags... (but really, the bags better be light enough for me to carry into the house!) Small amounts at a store would be ok. Since we live so far, we do two weeks' worth of shopping at a time, so there's a lot to deal with. I think I was just taking a break from trying to be "up" and was wallowing in a little self-pity when I wrote my post this morning--because I DO wonder how long it will take (and yes, if EVER, Singer) to get back to normal. Again, I know "normal" for most people will never be my "normal"-- but to the point where I can get along and feel good about most things. Chris--I am off of all narcotics/pain meds, and was off almost all by 5 or 6 months. I just continued with 1 darvocet at bedtime--kind of like taking a teddy bear to bed as a kid--it was my security pill that I'd sleep through the night ok... I hardly ever have to take anything else--mostly just for an occasional headache. I never did take much for my scoliosis aching, so never got in the habit of getting rid of what I consider livable pain. I understand some of you must experience much more pain than I do/have. When I say I'm aching, it's not the end of the world type pain--just uncomfortable.

I am thankful my husband is so supportive and helpful. It would be a lot different to be on my own! I wouldn't want to sugar-coat any of this, but I think it would be do-able for you, Chris, barring any complications. And, as Singer mentioned, it would have just gotten worse and worse without the surgery. My husband was doing the grocery handling then also, for the most part. It was really bothering my back to put the heavy items on the conveyor belt, etc., back then. (Although I could pick up dropped cans rather than kick them to the side back then!) ;)

trulyaries
01-23-2008, 11:57 AM
Susie*Bee - your first post this morning brought me to tears, feeling sorry for myself also. I could relate to so much of what you were saying. It's so great to be able to use this forum to share, vent, whine, and yes, laugh a lot, especially lately with some of the posts. But the reality of our lives still has to be dealt with and some of those simple things like grocery shopping that we used to take for granted become such insurmountable tasks at times. I find daily living especially hard to deal with because I live alone. My family/friends always say to call them if I need something done - well, you all know that realistically I would be calling them like 10-20 times a day - take the trash out - clean up the mess when I drop and break something messy - bring the groceries in - put the groceries away - empty the dishwasher - etc. etc. etc. Fortunately, I have always had an independent and creative spirit, so I can usually come up with a novel way to get things done. For instance, I found that telling baggers to not make the packages too heavy doesn't work very well because they are usually teen guys who don't understand the concept, so I have them help me load my car at the store. Then I carry extra bags in my car so I can lighten all the loads before I carry them in the house.

Chris WBS -please don't get too discouraged. After my first surgery (T4-L4) I was working part-time at home at 3 months, then back to work by 4 months. It took awhile after that to get over the fatigue, but I was able to work just fine and was not on any drugs that doped me up by that time. I had about five good years before my back started acting up again. My situation (a 4th surgery scheduled next month) is not unheard of, but certainly not inevitable for everyone.

Only we on this forum can understand the deep feelings and daily difficulties expressed in this thread. Anyway, now that I've had my cry for the day - back to the fray! :)

Susie*Bee
01-23-2008, 12:20 PM
trulyaries--Thanks a bunch for being so understanding and kind about my little meltdown, but I am so sorry it made you cry. :( I always want to be an encourager--and today I was a discourager... :eek: My apologies to everyone! All of you are terrific!

JanL
01-23-2008, 06:54 PM
To add another perspective, I am 6 weeks post op - turned 55 four weeks after surgery. I have been off the heavy meds - oxycotin since 3 weeks and now I am off the Norvo (1/2 Narcotic, 1/2 tylenol). I don't really have pain but have stiffness and the Norco didn't seem to change that so I figured I'd rather get off it so I could start doing more. I sleep better now. I drive a few miles to the grocery, drugstore. I've been out to lunch with friends. I do get tired after an outing but I feel the only way to build my stamina is to do a little each day. My husband has been very helpful though it is frustrating to ask for so much and to be on someone else's time frame. I will have to return to work at 12 weeks to keep my job and I need benefiits now more than ever. I am a dietitian in a hospital so it is not a physical job. I visit patinets, chart on the computer, attend meetings, etc. At least I can alternate sitting and walking. The commute is 45 mins each way so the drive will be the worse part.

So all and all I am doing well. I was thinking about PM Karen Ocker as she has 5 yrs behind her to ask will I eventually be able to bend at the hips and pick things up off the floor? will I be able to sit with my feet tucked under me again?, will I be able to sit propped up in bed rather than flat? Hopefully this will all come but we need to be patient

lelc2002@yahoo
01-24-2008, 05:23 AM
Hi JanL-I am 48 now(operations were aug 2006) & I can bend at the hips now. I try to bend mostly at the knees but sometimes forget. I am now mostly back to my before surgery energy level. I still get a bit achey by early evening & need to lie on my bed but as my 83 yr old mom says, I NEVER sit. I'm always doing something!! You'll get there gradually. Each month you'll be able to do more & feel better.
SusieBee & TrulyAries: We have a small group of scoli women now in our area & we have lunch & talk. My goal with the group as we possibly add people, is to have a support network where others can help those who may need a visit or call or a meal especially if they are alone. :)

trulyaries
01-24-2008, 07:41 AM
SusieBee - You weren't a discourager. My tears were tears of recognition and empathy. Not to worry - I bounce back.
Lelc2002 - It might be tough for me to come to lunch - I'm in Michigan :) - but I will keep in mind the idea of phone buddies. Thank you so much for thinking of me.

Susie*Bee
01-24-2008, 08:46 AM
Thanks, trulyaries! And ditto for me, Lynne--I'm too far away to come for lunch (NW Indiana), but that would be fun. And I don't know anyone around here to buddy up with. That's great that you have a local support group! I'm really ok on my own, (with my husband), for the most part--as long as there's this forum for support and encouragement and, yes, a little social life. ;) I guess we can all get down every once in awhile...

JanL--I'm impressed that you are doing so awesome! What an encouragement! Best wishes when it's time to return to work! :) Also--I was released to bend "slightly" :confused: from the hip, whatever that means, at my 6 months check-up. So I do that quite often. Besides, I don't get what the difference is from bending at the hip or sitting--they are both at an angle of your hips to your legs. I wasn't fused to the sacrum though, just to L4, but am not supposed to bend from those lower lumbars. As far as bending over to pick something up from the floor, I'm under the impression that I won't ever be doing that, although I could be wrong. That is why I'm working so hard to be able to squat. :rolleyes: Will I ever get there???? That's one of those things I ask myself almost daily... that carrot is always way beyond reach to this ol' donkey, but is getting a tiny closer. It's to the point where I feel I need to ask people (don't worry, not on the street--just ones I know fairly well, like my own kids) if they know how to squat or not, and if not, they'd better work on it in case they can't and need to at some point in time... Something I wish someone had said to me a long time ago, although I'm sure I wouldn't have paid any attention anyway. :o

Wishing
01-24-2008, 04:22 PM
Many years ago I had the good fortune to read some books by Norman Cousins, Anatomy of an Illness, and The Healing Heart. He described how he coped with pain in dealing with a serious illness he had. I remember him saying that the mind is not wired to laugh and feel pain at the same time and focused on laughter as a way of coping with pain and healing. So, years ago when I was recovering from extensive thoracoplasty, I had stacked up on lots of funny videos such as Candid Camera, Johnny Carson videos, Funniest Home Videos, funny movies, etc. While I did need some pain medication, I had myself a good laugh and was able to divert my attention from pain. Hopefully, I can put this theory to the test again if I am fortunate to have corrective surgery later this year. T 91, L 68.

crepehanger
01-24-2008, 05:57 PM
What a gift this forum is! You all mirror my own thoughts and struggles. I have days that I wonder if I will ever be normal, too. I hate to have to say this but CHRIS WBS has a very valid question about working and recovery from surgery. I am sure I would have been better mentally if I had not been so depressed about not being able to do my job. I am going to have to train for something else. I made 65% of the income in our household. We had to make some hellacious cuts to make it this far, but thank God, we're hanging in there. If our house had not been paid for, we would have been screwed, blued and tattooed. My heart goes out to each and every one of you as you work through your obstacles. On the other side of the coin, I have to admit, even with the uphill battles and the occasional crappy days, I am still glad I had the surgery. I so hope everyone else can honestly say the same, and CHRIS WBS, I hope you can reach the best decision for yourself, you're smart to think it through. I wish we were all close enough to take care of you, we could take turns!

CHRIS WBS
01-25-2008, 02:33 PM
You’re so sweet, Lisa. When I get overly anxious about something that might happen, I remind myself that much of what we worry about never comes to realization. As an example, I was convinced I was going to lose my job and health coverage at a time when I need it the most. I had a wonderful boss who suffered a massive stroke 18 months ago and had to retire. I was so worried my job would be eliminated as I sat in limbo for six months wondering what plans executive management had in place. As it turned out, they hired a new general counsel who I now report to. My new boss is one of the kindest and most supportive people I have ever had to report to and I consider myself quite fortunate. Once again, my prayers were answered.

Chris

Pips
02-01-2008, 11:24 AM
I have days too when I am discouraged and I am now nearly 2 years post op (will be updating my blog with a few thoughts on that in a few days).

Singer - you touched my heart with this:

On the OTHER hand -- (are you getting whiplash following this?) -- the reality is, I would have become increasingly disabled had I NOT had the surgery. A fused spine is not natural, and it is limiting. But so is severe scoliosis. The hardest part about this condition, for me, is ACCEPTING the fact that EITHER WAY, with or without a fused spine, my back will never be "normal."

Thank you for putting into words what I have felt so often. It's all about acceptance, though isn't it?

I have recently lost my best friend to cancer and I feel so lucky to have had the chance of a future (unlike her) - I do know though that I will be restricted (probably forever) and its nice to know that other people have similar feelings to me.

I am lucky in that I mostly have a very positive outlook on things and try and just get on with whatever life puts in my way - so, I may never be 'normal', but hey, who is?

Gator
02-03-2008, 03:39 PM
I haven't posted to the forum in a long time-but had to say thanks for sharing. I am now 9 months post-op and have been really discouraged at times. I still have a good bit of pain at the end of the day...the "bearclaw" is very familiar. I am a wildlife rehabber and do have two young band tail pigeons home for care.This is a part of my life I refuse to give up. I had to move out of my space in the antique store last week because I simply can't do all the work anymore. When I need to do something I know will be strenuous I take half a pain pill in advance. We were showing our little French bulldog last weekend at the benched show in San Francisco-you are there from 8:30 until 5:30 each day. Whew!!!
I thank God for my wonderful husband each day..he is great at socks :D and at keeping me on track. He is a former ER doc and reminds me frequently that "recovery is not linear". It takes time and not each day gets better than the last. He believes that people in pain need to take pain medication and get on with life. I have stopped setting timetables for myself, the old "I should be able to do this by now" and comparing my progress to people 30 years younger with smaller fusions. But I have to tell you that this recent thread made me feel (once again!) that I have your company in this journey we all share. Good luck to us all!

Theresa
02-03-2008, 09:01 PM
I can understand where you all are coming from!!! Some days I am so tired of being the "good little soldier". After my A/P surgery in 2004 I went back to work at 5 months. A year later after the second surgery I went back to work at 3 months. This last surgery last May I went back to work at 2 1/2 months. This one has really taken a toll on me. I take my meds daily and still have a pain level of about a 3 out of 5 scale. Just trying to get my body moving fast enough in the morning is a chore! I have not been sleeping well because now I'm having an issue with my hands and arms going numb and all the pins and needle feelings that go along with that. I go in Wednesday to have an upper extremity EMG done and then x-rays of my neck to see if anything is going on. I had an EMG done last year on my hands and it only showed mild carpal tunnel. My doctor is thinking that maybe something is pinched and hopefully we can take care of things with PT. I definetly feel better when I have a few days off (more than the weekend) and there isn't anything going on like Thanksgiving or Christmas, so I can just rest. But as soon as I go back to work, it starts all over again. I only have about 3 1/2 years left to go and I can do full retirement. I am walking nice and straight finally!!!!! I was exactly able to do Christmas shopping in and out of the stores carrying bags and everything!!!! Wasn't able to do that since the surgery in 2004. We can't get rid of the pain though. But I do know that my future is definitly alot brighter because of the surgery. I tease my husband and tell him as he ages he will be getting bent over and have to deal with some of the same issues. He is already asking me how do I handle it everyday. He crashed on his mountain bike last Sunday and hit the ground pretty hard. He has been aching all week! I told him he will get used to it!!!!!

Kari
02-07-2008, 01:50 PM
I totally understand where you are coming from. I am 9 months post-op and the Doc says I am doing very well. However, I can only work part-time which is frustrating. When I get down, I make a list of all the things I can do now and then compare it to last months and all the months prior. I then realize that I am making steady progress! Yes, I am in many ways not like I was before my surgery and continue to have limits. But, I remind myself I have a new body now and I have to do things differently.

We have had 11 snow storms this winter and I have not been able to help or play with my three kids in the snow up until today. We got 20 inches of snow and I very carefully shoveled the front steps and made snowmen with my kids. I celebrated this huge milestone! It is the little steps that I make during the healing process that help me get through the days and weeks when I am so exhausted. I too, continue to struggle with over doing it and get fatique easily. I especially get mentally fatiqued, which causes me to be completly disfunctional and very frustrated! It takes time and the hardest thing about all of this is that from the outside all of us look great! No one really knows the emotional and physical struggles we go through, unless they have had the surgery. I know that when spring come, I will feel better!

Kari
age 40 - T3-L3

Sharshe
02-07-2008, 02:32 PM
Gator,
If you don't mind my asking, why do you have
"2 long screws from rods out to ilium"?
Just curious as to the purpose. Thanx

Theresa
02-09-2008, 11:30 PM
Sharshe,

I also have the two long screws from my spine to my pelvis. In my case they were to try to keep me in an upright position. Ever since my first surgery I had not been able to stand up straight or walk in an upright position. I had flatback. This past May I had another osteotomy at L2 and the screws to the pelvis added. It worked!!!! I can now walk without leaning forward.