So, I had my first breakdown where I considered cancelling surgery. (And then when I was in so much pain yesterday from shopping with my family and I couldn't wait to get home and lay down, I realized, once again why it is I'm having the surgery!)
If anyone could give me any advice on this, it would be great, although just being able to vent here is wonderful in itself!
My sister is pregnant and she's due late February. She and I couldn't be any closer- we're best friends. So, naturally, since I don't have any children of my own yet, becoming an Aunt for the first time is thrilling to me! We just found out that she's having a girl.... and so I am even that much more excited that I'm getting a niece
Here's where my concern comes in... From what I've heard, the weight restriction while healing is limited to 10 lbs. At first, I was worried about how I'd go back to work, but other things, like holding my niece haden't even crossed my mind! I know many of you have children. Did the surgery affect how you were with them? I love babies... I have many in my family, and now especially, I want to be able to hold them!! I've heard different things about the weight restrictions during the entire healing process (1-2 years). I know that the most important thing is to make sure I heal properly, but it kills me to think about not being able to play with my niece.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
Thank you all so much!!!
Lesly
If anyone could give me any advice on this, it would be great, although just being able to vent here is wonderful in itself!
My sister is pregnant and she's due late February. She and I couldn't be any closer- we're best friends. So, naturally, since I don't have any children of my own yet, becoming an Aunt for the first time is thrilling to me! We just found out that she's having a girl.... and so I am even that much more excited that I'm getting a niece
Here's where my concern comes in... From what I've heard, the weight restriction while healing is limited to 10 lbs. At first, I was worried about how I'd go back to work, but other things, like holding my niece haden't even crossed my mind! I know many of you have children. Did the surgery affect how you were with them? I love babies... I have many in my family, and now especially, I want to be able to hold them!! I've heard different things about the weight restrictions during the entire healing process (1-2 years). I know that the most important thing is to make sure I heal properly, but it kills me to think about not being able to play with my niece.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
Thank you all so much!!!
Lesly
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