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djkinkead
08-30-2011, 08:48 AM
Greetings from the other side of my first surgery.

The surgery went well Tuesday DESPITE the earthquake that happened during my surgery.... :-)

I do remember waking up right after the surgery and I felt some serious pain, so they used some morphene, but didn't need it after that.

Stayed in the hospital through Saturday morning. Since there wasn't room for my in rehab at the hospital, and we live quite the distance from the hospital, the surgeon's office found a rehab place in Frederick, MD for me to spend a few days to get the last minute skills before I got home.

I still wasn't able to get in and out of bed my myself, but could do everything else pretty much. I bounced back pretty strongly.

My husband drove me to the place and I noticed for a "rehab" place I didn't receive any "rehab" Saturday or Sunday. Waiting for my pain medications at night was a nightmare and it was there where I did my own "rehab" and learned how to get out of back into bed so I could stare at the people who seemed good at deliverying medications late (first night it was 45 minutes late). Yep, I was an unhappy camper.

Oh, yeah, that was added upon the lady in the next room screaming in some sort of agony from 8:00 p.m. to 11:00.

Next morning I got up and made some inquiries about leaving the joint...I met passive resistance with a promise to do better. They did do better on pain dispensation, but I never received clean sheets. A pillow fell on the floor and a tech came in, asked me if I wanted it, I told him it had fallen off and I couldn't pick it up. He picked it up, threw the pillowcase That I had put on top of if (it had falled out of it), he put the same pillowcase on and threw it on my bed.

I told my husband, Rich, I wanted out. There were so many things happening I didn't want to stay there. So Monday, I announced I was leaving. They expressed they wanted me to stay three to four days. I said no. They said that only when their doctor said I could go, could I leave--and if I left without his authorization, my bill there might not get paid and I would have to pay for it all. I said I didn't think so. Called insurance--they'd get paid for the time I was there.

Then there was final of holding me hostage. One person told me when I checked out, the doctor would give me the prescription (including one naracotic for pain) and I could leave. Funny how that just couldn't happen. A series ot other answers surfaced, stating if I left before their docotor saw me, I wouldn't have my prescription for the meds. You are very dependent on meds at that time, so it was very emotional.

My husband came through for me, and worked with the surgeon's office to get a new set of prescription (including a substittute for the narcaotic so it could be faxed in) and so I signed a formed at the "rehab" place that I was checking myself out against medical advice and I made the great escape.

I remember being wheeled out and looking at all the people look at me, some with happiness, many with envy, going through the halls.

I was free!!!

Will later update my website with updated corrected spine xrays. I am very pleased. I gained two inches in height.

Still very much into the four hour med--sleep thing....

peachrush7
08-30-2011, 10:40 AM
Glad to hear you got out of there quickly! And glad to hear you came through the surgery well, and are at home! Those nurses just don't get it...it'd be great to see them go through what we go through and realize ooohhh...they were in AGONY that whole time we were ignoring them lol.


Hope things just keep getting better for you!

Blessings on your recovery!

golfnut
08-30-2011, 02:40 PM
I am glad you were able to escape! I would be worried about staff infection if they would use a pillow from the floor. You are better off at home. Best wishes for a smooth recovery.

mgs
08-31-2011, 01:44 PM
I'm glad that you are home, safe and sound. It's a sad commentary on what can pass for rehab care. I'm sure that there are the good facilities (like Christopher Reeve was at, or Congresswoman Giffords) and the "not-so-good- we don't care -let's collect the insurance $" places. (I often hear this same sad scenario from family members of our local hospice facility, but that's another nightmare.)

When I had my 12 level fusion 2 years ago, at the age of 48, my insurance company wouldn't pay for me to go to a rehab facility (apparently, because with tears rolling down my cheeks, I had managed to push myself and shuffle - w/a walker - a few feet above their "rehab" cut-off - when I was 1 week post-op). The ins co did offer that they'd pay for a stay at a nursing home (close to my home) that offered PT. The nurse who was w/me that morning told me, "There is NO WAY I am letting you get stuck in some nursing home. If I have to, I have some vacation days coming, and I'll take them now and come down to your house and help you." I declined, but what a sweet person! That's one thing I've noticed when we're in our quite vulnerable post-op phase: we meet the kindest of people, and the least kind.

The health care world has its treasure, and its trash.

A continued good recovery to you!!!

Doreen1
08-31-2011, 01:59 PM
I was wondering about you during the earthquake. What a story! Why do some people go into rehab post-op while others just go home?

Warmly,
Doreen

golfnut
08-31-2011, 02:13 PM
Doreen,
I was willing to go to rehab. if I had needed it, but I passed the requirements to go home. I had to be able to use some of the spine kit tools for dressing, walk up and down a few steps, and a few other things that I don't even remember now. I'm blaming it on the drugs. I just imagine that insurance companies are really particular about the patient's need for rehab. since they will be paying the bill. I have gathered from this forum that if one doesn't have a care giver at home, that it's easier to get the patient into rehab.

mgs
08-31-2011, 02:33 PM
Karen, I guess that it's up to the insurance provider? At no time was I EVER asked if I would have help at home. The answer would have been a qualified "no". My husband and I had one child still at home, starting his junior year in high school, 30 miles away (I had put off the surgery until he could drive to/from school). . .and my husband works 14 hr days, and that was non-negotiable. The insurance co - and we do have excellent insurance - was not interested in the fact that I would be on my own once I got home, 8 days post-op. There are many issues that should be worked out as far as post-discharge patient care goes, but I don't think will be. . .and I think it's only going to get worse.

JenniferG
08-31-2011, 03:13 PM
It's a concern that insurance companies rule people's medical care. It's not right.

Glad to hear of the "great escape" but sorry it was necessary.

mabeckoff
08-31-2011, 03:58 PM
After all three of my surgeries , I went to rehab for 2 weeks. The two rehabs in NC and CA have been wonderful . Both the OTs and the PTs as well as the nursing staff have been wonderful .

Melissa

Shari
08-31-2011, 11:50 PM
I'm voting for the name change!!! It's unique and perfect:cool:!!!
Hang in there,
Shari

debbei
09-02-2011, 01:13 PM
OMG I just read that your operation was DURING the earthquake!! At least you didn't know what was happening !

jeneemohler
09-02-2011, 01:40 PM
Wow. What a story! I am so glad you escaped from that "care". I am amazed at how well you are doing already, and your presence of mind to to be able to write about it. It took me a couple weeks, at least, to be able to write small posts. But now you have been through the toughest part, other than the impatience of waiting and waiting for the healing process. You take the prize on surgery stories. Who else has gone through an earthquake during surgery!?!?!?! Surgery may be an earth shattering experience, but good grief, you don't need to go through it literally!!!! Welcome to the other side!

paula
09-04-2011, 02:32 PM
I had excellent rehab care at Scripps in Encinitas, just a few miles from my home. I had my surgery at UC San Diego hospital, about 30 miles from home, so it was really great when I got transferred closer. My insurance declined it at first, but I had already talked to the people at Scripps Rehab before my surgery, and they had come in evaluated me. The intake coordinator at Scripps called Blue Shield and explained quite clearly to them that even though I could walk with the walker, there was still a great deal I couldn't do. The intake coordinator had a person at Blue Shield who knew her, and she was able to swing it for me. So I guess a good thing to do before surgery is do at least try to plan your rehab.