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    Hi everyone. I am 5 months post today. I am still having a lot of pain in my lowest disc space. Most of the time it travels around my right hip and down my quad. I have been working full-time for over 2 months and the pain from doing this is weighing me down terribly. I missed 2 12 hour shifts last week due to jury duty and felt soooooo much better. I thought I was finally improving. Now after I am back at work the pain has returned. I can make it well about 6-7 hours into the day and then the pain starts and I literally drag myself through the rest of my shift. I can't take it anymore and don't know what to do. I am considering switching to nights or to another ICU with a lower ratio of patients or just going back out of work on short term disability which if 50% my pay. This is all very depressing......I don't like change but I am torturing myself. No one at work is really sympathetic anymore I am afraid to mention it for fear they will think I am whining. I am however holding myself up better on a good note. The only time I bend over is when I am very busy or very exhausted (which is often but much less than before). Has anyone else dealt with this?? Did it improve?? Should I consider fusing to my pelvis?? Should I wait and see?? What should I do about work?? I have been exercising 2-3x a week when the pain is not too bad. I started seeing a Chiropracter 2 weeks ago. Then today I got a massage. Still not much relief. I realize I am being incredibly impatient I am just at my wits end and full of disappointment, regret and depressed.
    Thanks,
    Janet
    Last edited by jsully; 11-11-2010, 08:22 PM.
    36 year young cardiac RN
    old curve C 29, T 70, L 50
    new curve C 7, T 23, L 20
    Surgery June 11, UCH, Dr. Cronen T2-L5, posterior
    Revision December 20 L5-S1 with pelvic fixation
    and Osteotomy to L3 at Tampa General Hospital

  • #2
    Hi Janet-

    I just wanted to say I totally understand how you are feeling. I was 5 months post op on June 8 and am feeling depressed as well. My shoulder blade pain is awful and is not getting better. I am depressed because I feel like I traded one pain for another with this surgery. I don't know how you are working because I am having a tough time just staying at home, taking care of 2 small children, and doing all the household stuff for my family. Maybe you should go back on disability and try giving yourself a rest for a month or so and see what happens. Also, maybe try to give it another six months to see if the pain goes away. If it doesn't, then maybe after a year or so you can talk to your doctor about fusing to the pelvis. I am giving it another 6 months, and if my shoulder/neck pain doesn't go away, I am going to try an epidural injection in my neck. My shoulder blade pain is coming from my neck so maybe by having an injection it will ease the shoulder blade pain. Just telling you this because maybe you can get one in your L5-S1 area (the area that's unfused) and it will take away some of the pain.

    Also, I totally understand how you feel about how you don't want to seem like you are whining. I totally stopped talking about my pain recently because I don't want people to think I am whining all the time. People think that I had the surgery so I should be "all healed" by now.

    Anyway, keep me posted. I hope your pain goes away soon and continues to get better.

    JenM
    Surgery date: June 8, 2010 with Dr. Boachie
    Thoracic curve: 55 degrees, corrected to 25 degrees
    Lumbar curve: 58 degrees, corrected to 27 degrees
    Posterior-only surgery, Levels T3-L3
    31 year old mother of 2 young kids

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    • #3
      icu

      Hi,
      Just wanted to say i give you a lot of credit for working your shifts for this long. I'm an ICU nurse in the Pittsburgh area. I do not have scoliosis (my daughter does) and i can feel my back and feet hurting after a twelve hour shift. So i can only imagine how you feel. Are you able to maybe work part time? If not, would you be willing to think about an office job? Something not so physical? What has your surgeon said? My mother had a fusion twenty years ago and works full time as a waitress. She is always in pain and does not want to listen when i tell her that she needs to think about another line of work. You are most important and if you are always in pain, you cannot care for your patients. I would think about contacting your surgeon or trying even a pain management clinic. Bottom line is you cannot continue to be in pain everyday. Hope you find a solution that works well for you. Please keep us updated. Take care of yourself.
      Lindsay

      mom of Kyra 6 yrs old
      thoracic curve 70 degrees
      bracing-2005-2006
      serial casting-2007-2008
      chiropractic- 2010
      growth rod insertion 11/16/2010
      curve post surgery - 25 degrees

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      • #4
        I talked to my DR. He does think the pain is coming from the lowest non fused disc. He said I can try a injection with not much hope that it will work. I also could try switching jobs or just go ahead and have my lowest disc added on with pelvic fixation. I am leaning to the later decision because my insurance is changing in January to a 75/25% PPO and currently I have a HMO that I would only have to pay $250 co-pay. Also, I can't see why I should prolong the inevitable and my Dr. agrees. Tell me what you think.
        Janet
        36 year young cardiac RN
        old curve C 29, T 70, L 50
        new curve C 7, T 23, L 20
        Surgery June 11, UCH, Dr. Cronen T2-L5, posterior
        Revision December 20 L5-S1 with pelvic fixation
        and Osteotomy to L3 at Tampa General Hospital

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        • #5
          Hi Janet,

          I am so sorry to hear of your continuing pain and depression. I truly know how hard a bedside nursing job is physically, so I am amazed that you are making it at all on 12 hr shifts. That's brutal.

          I think if I was in your position, and my surgeon felt the additional surgery was inevitable, and it would help/relieve my pain, and I had insurance incentive to not wait, I would probably take the plunge and get it over with. Your current situation seems unbearable, and I feel so badly for you. What does your family think about about things? Do you have support for another surgery so soon. I imagine it would be an easier recovery than the first surgery since it is just one level added on plus pelvic fixation.

          I suppose you could try the injection if you needed to think you had tried everything, on the other hand, if the surgeon says extension to the sacrum/pelvis is inevitable, that says a lot. I can't imagine a chiropractor could help at this point.

          Good luck with your decision. I feel for you.

          Gayle
          Gayle, age 50
          Oct 2010 fusion T8-sacrum w/ pelvic fixation
          Feb 2012 lumbar revision for broken rods @ L2-3-4
          Sept 2015 major lumbar A/P revision for broken rods @ L5-S1


          mom of Leah, 15 y/o, Diagnosed '08 with 26* T JIS (age 6)
          2010 VBS Dr Luhmann Shriners St Louis
          2017 curves stable/skeletely mature

          also mom of Torrey, 12 y/o son, 16* T, stable

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          • #6
            Hi Janet. I just wanted to pop in and say that I was amazed that you were able to go back to work full time as soon as you did. I just started true physical therapy today after doing water aerobics for a month. After all my complications, the doctor is taking my return to work slow and I appreciate that. Right now, the plan is for me to return the first part of January. My family (not my husband though) I feel like is starting to get frustrated with my slow recovery and I get the feeling that they think I am "putting on" at this point. Like you said, since I had the surgery I should be healed by now. I don't think I realized that the recovery process would be this long and drawn out. I surely didn't realize the emotional toll it would take on me either. I don't have answers to any of your questions, but I just wanted to know that you've got my support!

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            • #7
              Janet--
              I agree with all of the above. There is no way I could have gone back to work for a LONG time--let alone 5 months. If you go for the longer fusion, I hope you can get an extended time off to heal. Sorry for your problems so soon after your first surgery. I hope the answer is out there for you. Janet
              Janet

              61 years old--57 for surgery

              Diagnosed in 1965 at age of 13--no brace
              Thoracic Curve: 96 degrees to 35 degrees
              Lumbar Curve: 63 degrees to 5 degrees
              Surgery with Dr. Lenke in St. Louis--March 30, 2009
              T-2 to Pelvis, and hopefully all posterior procedure.

              All was posterior along with 2 cages and 6 osteotomies.

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              • #8
                I also agree with those before me. And with Doodles, in the hope that you can have enough time off after the surgery to fully heal. I feel that will make a huge difference to you and to your feelings about the surgery generally. I don't know how you've coped with those 12 hour shifts.

                The very best of luck!
                Surgery March 3, 2009 at almost 58, now 63.
                Dr. Askin, Brisbane, Australia
                T4-Pelvis, Posterior only
                Osteotomies and Laminectomies
                Was 68 degrees, now 22 and pain free

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                • #9
                  Janet

                  Wow, wow, wow.

                  I posted on one of the threads here about individual disc mobility per Dr Moes book. I believe that the L5-S1 was approx 20 degrees, which is worth trying to preserve. I’m so sorry that you are having a tough time with this.

                  I don’t like to recommend surgery, but you do bring up valid points....which makes me say wow, wow, wow.

                  I will reiterate what the others have said above. I took 18 months off work.
                  If you do this, you need to take it easy some how.... seriously. Fusion takes 12 months....you shouldn’t be working the way you do.

                  Even though I am a advocate of Chiropractic, I don’t think this is a good idea for you right now. Hot water yes, Chiro for one inflamed L5-S1 level no. You also might not be fully fused on other levels, I would stop the Chiropractic adjustments.

                  It would be best to slow down, boil in a hot tub, get some bed rest, and try to plan this out some how. There is a resolution ahead, and it will work out. Hold your head up.
                  Ed
                  titaniumed@hotmail.com
                  49 yr old male, now 63, the new 64...
                  Pre surgery curves T70,L70
                  ALIF/PSA T2-Pelvis 01/29/08, 01/31/08 7" pelvic anchors BMP
                  Dr Brett Menmuir St Marys Hospital Reno,Nevada

                  Bending and twisting pics after full fusion
                  http://www.scoliosis.org/forum/showt...on.&highlight=

                  My x-rays
                  http://www.scoliosis.org/forum/attac...2&d=1228779214

                  http://www.scoliosis.org/forum/attac...3&d=1228779258

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                  • #10
                    Janet
                    As others here already commented, I too am very surprised at how much you were working so soon after your surgery. I am so sorry to hear that you are suffering from so much pain.

                    I really hope that you find the answer so you can be on your way to being pain free.
                    Laurie
                    Age 57
                    Posterior fusion w/thoracoplasty T2-L3 Oct 1, 2010
                    Thoracic curve corrected from 61* to 16*
                    Lumbar curve, unknown measurement
                    Disfiguring back hump GONE!!
                    Dr Munish Gupta
                    UC Davis Medical Center, Sacramento, CA

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                    • #11
                      Advice from yet another nurse ;-)

                      Janet,
                      I give you all the credit in the world for working so soon after your surgery. 12 hour shifts are brutal even for non-fused nurses! I could not go back to work after my first surgery for 5 months, and my nursing job is not a bedside nursing position. My job had more flexible hours where I could rest when I wanted and no lifting, pushing, pulling, bending etc that I remember from my ICU days. I found that I've had to give up any thought of going back to hospital nursing and 12 hr shifts, for a job that is not so physical. Part of recovery is rest...maybe you haven't given your body a chance to adequately rest? I agree with others, if you do decide on additional surgery, you will definitely need to be sure to have enough time off to recover...I'm glad to hear that you are standing straighter now. Good luck in your decisions.
                      May 2008 Fusion T4 - S1, Pre-op Curves T45, L70 (age 48). Unsuccessful surgery.

                      March 18, 2010 (age 50). Revision with L3 Osteotomy, Replacement of hardware T11 - S1 , addition of bilateral pelvic fixation. Correction of sagittal imbalance and kyphosis.

                      January 24, 2012 (age 52) Revision to repair pseudoarthrosis and 2 broken rods at L3/L4.

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                      • #12
                        We will have to see how it goes. The Dr thinks I will recover even faster from this. I am, unfortunately the main provider for my family so I have no choice to return in about another 12 weeks or they could terminate me because I have already taken 12 weeks off in a rolling calender year. My STD is only 60% of my pay and it will be hard to get by on that. All I can do is cut the boys' after school care (80 a week) and have them take the bus while I am off. The reason I WANT to have surgery is to get back on a normal work schedule ASAP so I can provide for my family. My boss mentioned me switching to case management which I may do eventually at least I am not bending over people all day. I do not want to switch companies I have been working for mine for 10 years and I won't be able to match my benefits or pay anywhere else. My husband's company doesn't even have benefits and he works for the Chamber of Commerce and makes little for the amount of work he does. I am just thankful we both have jobs right now. I am a tough cookie and I think I can do this if the surgery helps. I can never stay put in pain or not. People mention to me just getting disability. This is not a option. I just have to get better...
                        Janet
                        36 year young cardiac RN
                        old curve C 29, T 70, L 50
                        new curve C 7, T 23, L 20
                        Surgery June 11, UCH, Dr. Cronen T2-L5, posterior
                        Revision December 20 L5-S1 with pelvic fixation
                        and Osteotomy to L3 at Tampa General Hospital

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                        • #13
                          Janet-

                          Have you tried any prescription NSAID's? I went to a local doctor today, who is not my surgeon, and he put me on Relafen. Last time I saw my surgeon in October he said I could take Advil/Aleve or any NSAID's. This will cut down on the inflammation in the body, which we are currently producing more of since we just had a major surgery. I was thinking you may still have alot of inflammation down around your lower back/last disc and it could help. You may want to try something like that for a month or two to see if the pain decreases before having the surgery. You may want to ask your doctor about this to see if it is an option for you.

                          Hope this helps. I will be starting the Relafen tomorrow. I'm interested to see if it will take my neck/shoulder blade pain away!!

                          Take care and keep us updated!

                          JenM
                          Surgery date: June 8, 2010 with Dr. Boachie
                          Thoracic curve: 55 degrees, corrected to 25 degrees
                          Lumbar curve: 58 degrees, corrected to 27 degrees
                          Posterior-only surgery, Levels T3-L3
                          31 year old mother of 2 young kids

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                          • #14
                            janet i was like that during my month of recovery at home before i chold go back to school
                            Kara
                            25
                            Brace 4-15-05-5-25-06
                            Posterior Spinal Fusion 3-10-10
                            T4-L2
                            Before 50T
                            After 20T

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                            • #15
                              Janet - I am in awe of what you are able to do. Unbelievable that you work such long days and all you must do for your family. I will keep you in my prayers.
                              If you can find any way to increase disability pay by combining work insurance and Social Security, I would sure recommend it.
                              At 6 1/2 months I am still working only 4-5 hours a day. My work has been so understanding. I carry small copies of my before and after xrays and I show them to anyone who will look. I feel when we say we have had back surgery, they think oh yeah lots of people have back surgery. But we have BACK surgery. Once they see the xrays, and most all want to see them, they try to pamper me more than I even need.
                              You are not whining! I hope you find some pampering in your days!!
                              God bless you!! and take care of yourself!!
                              Shari
                              Shari - 55 years old
                              Pre-Surgery 62 degree thorasic curve with shifting.
                              Post op 13 degree curve.
                              Successful surgery 4/15/10, T3-L2 fused.
                              2nd surgery to reopen incision 10" to diagnose infection, 5/18/10
                              Beaumont Hospital, Royal Oak, MI - the late Dr. Harry Herkowitz
                              www.scoliosisthejourney.com

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